Relationships and Marriages are never easy, so when you're in a interfaith relationship it may seem like more effort or for the lucky ones they've got it figured. Your partner's religion can become overwhelming sometimes, but you have the power to control it. How you may ask?

 

Here are 8 top tips to help you out; 

 

8. Stay connected with their family: Sometimes not being involved with their parents might cause barriers. So make sure you plan family gatherings with both you and your partner's parents and involve them in your lives. 

 

7. Be realistic about your faith differences: Talk about the common aspects of your faith lives, too. Find ways to merge traditions. Appreciate your religious convictions and celebrate your faith diversity.

 

 

6. Be Willing to Learn: Having two different beliefs and values can sometimes be overwhelming. However, try taking some time out and learning about your partner's religion. My first partner was Hindu I had taken the time to learn about Hinduism to not only show him my love and respect, but to also understand a little about him. My partner had also done the same. This way it shows the respect and interest you have for one another.  

 

 

5. Discuss where the two of you will worship: It's always best to ask each other whether you want to worship separately or together. You might find it may help the learning process between the two of you. 

 

4. Participate: Okay, so once you start listening and learning about your partner's religion, don't just stop, there's more. You need to make the effort to participate in family gatherings and involve yourself in their family rituals. This way you are connecting with their family. This will not only make your partner feel happy and grateful, but you might also feel at peace knowing you at least tried. 

 

3. Communicate: It is so important to communicate with your partner. Now you might be thinking you do this every day. We mean the sharing your thoughts and listening to each other communication. Always remember share your feelings, listen to your partner. If you're in a relationship where both you and your partner speak two different languages with your families, go that extra mile and learn a few words to surprise your partner and make them feel important. Don't keep your feelings to yourself, share, reflect, and feel great. 

 

2. Enjoy your relationship: Truly, life is too short, so don't let small differences get in the way of your relationship. Have fun in your relationship and marriage, if you want to be happy, you will find happiness.

 

1. Be Happy:  Finally the number one is being happy with the choice you made. Don't doubt your choice. Even if your family or friends are not yet accepting of your relationship don't let that affect the way you treat your partner. You made the decision to be with her/him, make it work, and be true to only yourself. Believe in your relationship and your decision.